Get the weight of the truck off of it. Better yet take the wheel off and lay it flat. Get your self a torque wrench a cold drink and start crisscrossing in two lbs increments. I’ve run bead locks off road for years. I’ve never had that happen. I bet your shop didn’t do it that way. Usually takes me over a thousand moves of the torque wrench to do a full set. Do all five of them that way. I personally use a shop bar stool to support mine. You can sit on a second stool and rotate the tire as you go. Saves your back
